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For many people, blowjobs are difficult, misunderstood and embarrassing. If you're a beginner it can be hard to find a starting point and even the seasoned professional can find the one eyed monster intimidating. Do not fear! There is plenty of literature out there and we have found a few great blowjob books to aid you in your quest.
#1 Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man
Harper Collins Publishers, 2008Author: Ian Kerner (also author of "She Comes First")
Written with the same witty, insightful, and readable voice that has made, "She Comes First" and, "Be Honest—You're Not That Into Him, Either." The popular 'Passionista' is the empowered woman's guide to enjoying sex to the fullest—and ensuring that he does too.
Ian Kerner is a man and is obviously writing from a male perspective. But, what better way to learn how to please a man than by learning from a man? That being said, Kerner is solidly feminist and works to encourage his female readers.
This book is incredibly detailed and delves further into other important aspects like male sexuality in relation to what he wants and craves. This book will surly be one you love and your guy will love you for reading it.
#2 Tickle His Pickle
Tickle Kitty Press, 2004
Author: Dr. Sadie Allison
Dr. Sadie Allison has been a leading authority on sexuality for over a decade with around 2 million books sold. Her bestselling titles include Tickle His Pickle, TOYGASMS!, Ride 'Em Cowgirl!, Tickle Your Fancy, and the new Tickle My Tush. Each has won the much coveted IPPY—Independent Publisher’s Best Sexuality Book Award.
Tickle His Pickle comes complete with suggestions on how to incorporate sex toys, more than 50 different techniques, and ways that your blowjob can fulfill his deepest fantasies.
This book is women-friendly and it won't make you feel silly for picking it up and seeking the help. The book has received a great deal of praise and the reviews are mostly positive. Even Adam Carolla liked it!
Cleis Press, 2002
Author: Violet Blue
The great thing about this book is that it is for both beginner and expert level blowjobbers. Violet writes in a straightforward and friendly manner. She aims to dispel many common myths and misunderstandings. The reader is reminded that the giver has as much access to pleasure as the receiver.
The book also focuses on important technical aspects like shaving, and how to add pleasure with things like anal play. Simple, easy-to-follow illustrations are also included. At the same time, the book reads more like a frank discussion between friends than a text book.
Throughout, Violet maintains a playful tone that helps to make light of a task that would otherwise be daunting. Her book focuses more on helping beginners, yet still fun for everyone.
With love from, GetLusty!
This is a guest post by our very own Crimson Love. Crimson is our resident BDSM and fetish lover. If you don't see Crimson out dining with her adoring boyfriend, you'll find her reading books on innovation or finance. Crimson is currently finishing off her Bachelor's degree and loves talking about thinks like innovation. She is passionate about food, photography, music and especially sex. Of course, she's not afraid to talk about it. With everyone!
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